Making Decisions for Love vs. from Fear

It is easy to get caught up in a cycle of reactivity, worry, and negative thinking, which originates from our evolution as a species to survive, and tendency to go into fight or flight mode. The greater challenge seems to arise when a situation takes place and we must take a step back, objectively review and understand what is happening, and then act from a more secure, grounded and loving place.  

This is a topic that I have pondered over a lot while observing and resting for two months during the quiet quarantine days of recent times, but also during the days leading up to it, based on various circumstances and relationships in my life that have come together in interesting ways.  Generally speaking, when something amazing has happened to me it’s become almost an inside joke as you’ll often hear me saying “Life is so funny”, and it’s usually been a result of acting for love versus fear. 

So here are a few of my thoughts.